 Sunyata Q & A: |
Q. Can you give me tips on how to have a whole body orgasm? —from Tim via BlackBerry
A. Hi Tim, Whole Body Orgasms happen most often and with greatest impact when taken by surprise. They sneak up and overtake you, rolling through like a huge wave that keeps on going and going and going—ever expanding through all levels of your consciousness.
Rather than chasing after a whole body orgasm, to gain the most profound experience one must focus on creating the best opportunity for it to show up. This is achieved by placing yourself in a state that is both relaxed and aroused, and utterly present in the moment. —continued.
Q. I was reading your pages about tantric healing massage and release of previous bad-experience that is clogged up in the stomach, anus and yoni region in women. I have a male body, and since I had some very traumatic experiences with some other people my stomach area has become large and dead really. I've developed an umbilicus hernia and one in my groin also. After reading your article I'm convinced its from stress related to bad experiences I've stored in that region. What can I do to release it? —J.T.
A. Thank you dear soul for seeking assistance with your process of remembering your wholeness and returning to "innocence." Yes, a man's body is different, yet releasing psychological and emotional wounds and trauma is a similar process to what women experience and equally as effective.
Traditional talk therapy accesses through the mental body, activating the emotional body, but rarely addresses the physical warehousing of the wound (storing pain, tightness, numbness, deadness, discomfort, soreness, hardness) and its relationship to its psycho-emotional storage.
Adept counseling is essential as one aspect of returning to wholeness. And, I suggest the additional inclusion of: Mental, Emotional, Physical and Spiritual aspects altogether, simultaneous and contemporaneous in the thereapuetic sexual-healing experience... —continued.
Q. Sunyata, I can hardly believe that I am writing to you, for this (sex) is well beyond my comfort zone. I find your posts and website so respectful, understanding and spiritual that I find myself trusting you.
I have been growing closer to a man whom I love deeply, and with whom I feel a spiritual bond. I should point out that I am 20 years old and still in college, as is he...
I have not explored or even acknowledged my sexual energy since i broke up with my ex-boyfriend, and now that I have a person to whom i'd like to explore it with, I recognize that I'm lacking something huge. I've repressed my sexual energy, with the exception of my last relationship when my partner allowed me to realize that it is okay to have desires…after breaking up with him, my conditioned pattern of repression kicked back in, this time more intensely because I carried with me the experiences of rejection and loss… I don't know how to begin becoming aware of my sexual energy, let alone exploring it further and embracing it with the help of my friend. He has said he will be patient with me, and I believe him, but both of us are afraid to experiment and explore because we fear the sexual chemistry will not be there.
I'm at a loss as to where to begin... having tasted a universal, life-embodying energy, and being intoxicated by it, I want to help myself experience that divine energy more fully. Any thoughts or advice or suggestions on where I should begin will be much appreciated, many thanks. —S.D.
A. Dear S.D.,
Thank you for your trust and confidence in sharing what is an intimate and important aspect of your being with me.
It sounds like you and your friend have found a wonderful relationship of sharing yourselves deeply and supporting each other in fullness. This by itself is of great value!
I encourage you to allow your sex together to be whatever is in harmony with the authenticity you already share—and to know that it is perfect! Your openness, authenticity and depth of connection will guide you and your friend to where you want to go. Trust in each other and remain devoted to authentic and conscious relating and everything comprising your relationship will be made much easier.
To experience the depth of your sexual relating together more fully I have a few suggestions that may be of some assistance: —continued.
Q. Sunyata, I have a question. How do you know if you are transferring, projecting or attaching an emotion on to another? Is that the same as blame? It seems to me, that if one is sad, or happy, that the state is felt because of whom they are interacting with, is that not transferring? Ah yes, I am the question girl today, but I truly want to know. —A.
A. Yes Divine One,
Other's play a part in one's movie, but only a part. They instigate, initiate, and catalyze one's field of energy as they pass through —or confront— one's sphere of being; pushing buttons and revealing hidden things of the Self obscured by the personality, judgment and fear.
As you know, things don't happen "to us," they happen with our participation, response and reaction. As energy resonators (receivers and transmitters), we draw experience to us like a magnet and we are subjected to experience by being in a certain "flow" of our choosing (not always consciously so). This is combined with one's own energy state and thus we "seed" each experience with potential outcome... —continued. |
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